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Webcamming - A lifestyle question !?
22/01/12 11:06
100s of different sites, 1000s of men and women are performing in front of millions of visitors worldwide. Now what is the appeal? And why does it work so much better then many porn sites? I personally think it’s the personal touch. You can ask the girl/guy what you want to see, you can talk to them, they talk back, and for that one moment she is the girl in the pub getting naked, and you and your friends(other viewers) are cheering her on. Only this time you don’t need to hide yourself, but can get it all out and have fun. In the private chat this is even more appealing, as this can be your girlfriend who lives far away and you are having webcamsex. OK, it’s a fantasy, but it feels very real at that very moment. You have to pay per minute, but then again, its probably a lot cheaper then supporting your ex wife or getting a therapist for being sexually frustrated. And very important, as a viewer, you are in control of what happens, and if the performer bores you, you can easily switch to another one!
I still never understood why women get mad at their men watching some porn (some!!, not 24hrs a day). He obviously needs more release then they do, otherwise she would have probably jumped him a few more times a day. So why are they jealous? Because he is looking at other women? Because he gets to have sexual release more often then you? In the last case, well join in or help yourself? It’s really not such a bad thing to be having orgasms in the safety of your own home. And if it is because he is looking at other women? Well it is what men do! They might not all watch porn or webcam shows, but they do look around. Not to find someone else, but because they have eyes, and like looking at pretty women the same as they like looking at really expensive cars, which they will never be able to afford. They would love to drive it, as they would love to make out with the hot girl. Will it ever happen? Most likely not! Does he love you any less for it? Nope! Unless there are already signs of the relationship really going wrong : him watching some webcam girls doing their thing every now and then is not unhealthy. Neither is it for the woman doing the same! And while you are it, it can be a great stimulation to do it together in stead of watching TV. Most of the webcam performers are working from home, and as much fun as it is to them as it might be to you, it is still work. Not to be confused with 'I have been already seeing her three times, I am her favorite, no need to tip anymore'.
As much as she might like your company, and you being there, she is still at work, still has to pay her bills and therefor needs to give preference to paying customers. Don’t get mad or offended, you don’t go to
work for free because your boss is such a nice person either. If the customer doesn’t pay, the performer doesn’t get paid. It is as simple as that. Slightly different with the pay per minute situation, but then you pay as soon as you log in. So why do some performers just work for tips and others just for pay per minute? Because the pay per minute is safer, but the tips can be a lot higher. Whatever suits the performer I guess. Getting paid per minute, and having the option to get tips at the same time would be the best situation as the performer might be more enthustiastic knowing there is more money to be made, but not in a bad mood because her room is full and no one has tipped yet. The best situation is of course a fix set of hours, with a fix wage and tips on top
I wonder which company works that way. And where I can apply
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Greetings from Curacao
16/12/10 22:57
Hi everyone!!
As you for sure know by now I am curently in the lovely Curacao!! Exchanging the cold , dark winter for the warm carribean climate. It is awesome, my friends are the best, and the little one is loving it!! I went to kiss some dolphins(well a girl has to kiss someone since no one else asks right????:p) went to see flamingos, nature parks, lovely beaches and topped it off with an amazing party with DJ jean!!
Here are some photos for you, i will try to have some of myself for you next time!!!
xxx Terri
As you for sure know by now I am curently in the lovely Curacao!! Exchanging the cold , dark winter for the warm carribean climate. It is awesome, my friends are the best, and the little one is loving it!! I went to kiss some dolphins(well a girl has to kiss someone since no one else asks right????:p) went to see flamingos, nature parks, lovely beaches and topped it off with an amazing party with DJ jean!!
Here are some photos for you, i will try to have some of myself for you next time!!!
xxx Terri
Fullfill your very own fantasies
30/04/10 10:55
Last week online we asked about people's fantasies and what would get them horny. A major one was young look with pig tails.. i wonder where that comes from? Is it about age and innocence? Or just tight asses and pussy? Another fantasy was tight tank tops and summer shorts, for example like the one in my shwing tshirt (thanks for the compliments guys!!). Then there was oil all over the body and lots more.
A really big item being mentioned to us more and more is having sex as a normal man/woman with a pornstar. And having sex with your partner being filmed, and keep the results for your own private use only. It is not so much about being famous but fulfilling a personal fantasie of a man, a woman and even couples. They key is instead of a simple homevideo, yo have it professionally filmed. I am quite amazed at how many responses we got with this. Now this happens to be something that we are doing already.. you tell us your fantasy and we do all we possibly can to make it happen! It is actually one of our favorite things to shoot.
Or another fantasy that we make happen, is creating high quality photos of a woman for her husband/boyfriend or the other way around of course! So far we have yet to shoot our first gay couple, but cant wait for that one! In any case the request are becoming more and more each day that we decided to dedicate an extra section to this service and you will see it coming up in detail on the ‘Boutique’ page very soon.
An there is one fantasy we received which I really loved.. as the guy in the story is the one who send it, but i can soooo relate to the woman in the story, as i find watching a man in his own private time one of the most intimate things you can share sex wise. And is a HUGE turn on!
Anonymous:
I always loved getting caught having "alone time." Back when I was in school and dating, I gave my now ex girlfriend a key to my appartment.She could come over anytime ...no worries.
One day after a tough exam, I was pretty tense and decided to take good care of myself. I was so caught up in the moment that I didn't realize she was coming over to my place. She walked upstairs and caught me in the moment! I was so shocked and embarrassed that I started getting dressed again BUT she told me not to. An then she sat next to me. My ex was very conservative when we dated so obviously this was out of character for her!
She asked to watch me and told me how to do it. "Go Fast" or "go Slow" was happening during this session. Then she told me "to finish!" I was so turned on..that when I finished..it was one of the best of my life!
From that point in my life, I always have been turned on recreating that scenario. From me to walking in on her or she walking in on me...we had some fun times until we broke up.
Is that hot or what????
A really big item being mentioned to us more and more is having sex as a normal man/woman with a pornstar. And having sex with your partner being filmed, and keep the results for your own private use only. It is not so much about being famous but fulfilling a personal fantasie of a man, a woman and even couples. They key is instead of a simple homevideo, yo have it professionally filmed. I am quite amazed at how many responses we got with this. Now this happens to be something that we are doing already.. you tell us your fantasy and we do all we possibly can to make it happen! It is actually one of our favorite things to shoot.
Or another fantasy that we make happen, is creating high quality photos of a woman for her husband/boyfriend or the other way around of course! So far we have yet to shoot our first gay couple, but cant wait for that one! In any case the request are becoming more and more each day that we decided to dedicate an extra section to this service and you will see it coming up in detail on the ‘Boutique’ page very soon.
An there is one fantasy we received which I really loved.. as the guy in the story is the one who send it, but i can soooo relate to the woman in the story, as i find watching a man in his own private time one of the most intimate things you can share sex wise. And is a HUGE turn on!
Anonymous:
I always loved getting caught having "alone time." Back when I was in school and dating, I gave my now ex girlfriend a key to my appartment.She could come over anytime ...no worries.
One day after a tough exam, I was pretty tense and decided to take good care of myself. I was so caught up in the moment that I didn't realize she was coming over to my place. She walked upstairs and caught me in the moment! I was so shocked and embarrassed that I started getting dressed again BUT she told me not to. An then she sat next to me. My ex was very conservative when we dated so obviously this was out of character for her!
She asked to watch me and told me how to do it. "Go Fast" or "go Slow" was happening during this session. Then she told me "to finish!" I was so turned on..that when I finished..it was one of the best of my life!
From that point in my life, I always have been turned on recreating that scenario. From me to walking in on her or she walking in on me...we had some fun times until we broke up.
Is that hot or what????
Chaga Betula - Get healthy , stay healthy !
25/04/10 16:25
Hey, I would like to invite you to a presentation about Chaga Betula in Gouda - The Netherlands.
If you really want to feel and look amazing! - Chaga Betula:
Chaga is a food supplement with proven beneficial effects on the immune system, hormonal system and the nervous system. It is good for your heart and blood pressure: helps in reducing cholesterol levels, it improves blood purification and oxygen transport by the red blood cells.
In other words: great for getting a glowing and soft skin, nails and hair stronger, losing weight, a healthy blood flow (yes men, where did you want that blood flowing again... exactly!) against thrush, and the best benefit of it all you get an amazing energy! It has been used for many years in Japan, and we all know they live forever and never seem to age. We came to this product trying to find something to help my father's really sick friend, given up by the doctors. He managed to live on for 3 more years. In Japan and Russia, Chaga is a normal product used by doctors and hospitals, especially because of the high sources of natural betulin acid. They give it to give extra power to the sick people. In Western Countries we are using a chemical version of betulinic acid in the fight against cancer and other diseases.
For more information please go to www.ibizadeluxe.com or www.chagabetula.com
If you cant make it to the presentation but would like to try Chaga Betula, you can order it directly at www.chagabetula.com (delivery worldwide) or send me an email. Also if you are interested in this for your company and/ or to sell it, you can contact us for more information at info@shwingstudios.nl.
All the best, and lets all get gorgeous!
This event will be filmed by Shw!ng.
If you really want to feel and look amazing! - Chaga Betula:
Chaga is a food supplement with proven beneficial effects on the immune system, hormonal system and the nervous system. It is good for your heart and blood pressure: helps in reducing cholesterol levels, it improves blood purification and oxygen transport by the red blood cells.
In other words: great for getting a glowing and soft skin, nails and hair stronger, losing weight, a healthy blood flow (yes men, where did you want that blood flowing again... exactly!) against thrush, and the best benefit of it all you get an amazing energy! It has been used for many years in Japan, and we all know they live forever and never seem to age. We came to this product trying to find something to help my father's really sick friend, given up by the doctors. He managed to live on for 3 more years. In Japan and Russia, Chaga is a normal product used by doctors and hospitals, especially because of the high sources of natural betulin acid. They give it to give extra power to the sick people. In Western Countries we are using a chemical version of betulinic acid in the fight against cancer and other diseases.
For more information please go to www.ibizadeluxe.com or www.chagabetula.com
If you cant make it to the presentation but would like to try Chaga Betula, you can order it directly at www.chagabetula.com (delivery worldwide) or send me an email. Also if you are interested in this for your company and/ or to sell it, you can contact us for more information at info@shwingstudios.nl.
All the best, and lets all get gorgeous!
This event will be filmed by Shw!ng.
Tests - Better safe than extremely sorry
16/04/10 18:01
Tests.... In the adult industry everyone has to do them.. STD (sexually transmitted disease) tests.. In Amsterdam we have a special open clinic for them. Here you know that every one in the waiting room is there for exactly the same thing as you are. Which is actually kind of comforting, as you don't have to feel embarrassed about it. Everybody comes here, from all classes, all backgrounds, from schoolgirls to bussiness men. All for the same thing: STD/HIV tests. You be surprised how busy it gets in here! The good thing is how low they have made the barrier to come in, its free and can be anonymous. They write you a prespriction if needed, and no one needs to know. Eexcept of course if you have a STD, obviously the one you might have cought it from.
When I hear people saying they never got tested I am surprised, as some STD you can't see or feel, but can cause major issues with fertility for example, the HPV (Human Papilloma Virus) can cause cancer if not treated in time. You know the thing is, that even that sweet pretty girl, or the clean, handsome looking man can have a STD, not to mention HIV. I am not saying you should be paranoid about this, but the amount of excuses people come up with to have unsafe sex are just crazy. Actually, they are dangerous and don’t respect the life of others !
Our industry used to be very safe, people looked after each other, made sure not to have any unprotected sex outside of the industry. With the industry becoming more mainstream, more people come in, and with that a whole big bunch of losers who just don't take their business and health as serious. Causing a huge rise in STD, and even HIV. Which is why I think condom only should be the norm. I loved working in France, as you just knew you would go home with a clean pussy. On other sets its a 50/50 deal. Like a big Russian Roulette we all play. Secretly, because we all stick our heads so far in the sand, we believe our own little excuses for it.
Right now a lot of actresses are escorts. They get a lot of trouble for it as they might cause problems for the business. Some people really see a huge difference in getting paid for sex on a set with 4 guys or getting paid for sex with 1 guy without camera. Its both acting. I can see their point, but don't think its that much of a difference. I would be more worried of the actors going to Brasil and Russia and have sex without condom, and all the fake tests going around. Especially in Europe, who knows if its real? I mean let's face it, its not the hardest thing to make on a computer. So here in the Netherlands, they make no distinction at the clinic...whether you are a pornstar with a big name or a window prostitute, you are a sex worker. That should bring a lot of people down to reality again. And make the industry a safer place.. hell make society a healthier place again.
Anyway... Ready for some bloody testing!
xxx Terri
Online daten- Niet eens zo een gek idee ?!
12/04/10 21:17
Vooral als vrijgezel zijn de gesprekken over daten natuurlijk niet van de lucht.. maar met al die creeps om je heen, is het niet meer zoals vroeger. Een club in wandelen en iemand een drankje aanbieden kan al niet. Want stel je voor dat hij wat in je drinken doet. Maar ook, wat als de 1 een relatie wil en de ander alleen seks zonder verder niks. Een groter probleem is dat velen van ons, gewoon geen tijd hebben om veel uit te gaan, te verlegen zijn om contact te maken, of een relatie al hebben en dus niet klakkeloos zomaar kunnen vreemdgaan..
Online dating is dus booming! Ik weet niet of het idd veel gevaarlijker is dan gewoon daten (uitgegaan van het feit dat je wel dus volwassen bent), en het verschil met blind dates is natuurlijk minimaal. Want of je nou de leuke meid in een club oppikt of van het internet afplukt, in beide gevallen kan het een psycho bitch zijn natuurlijk.
Wat ik wel heel eng vind van online dating zijn de vaak heel snel intieme gesprekken, het voelt nl veilig om van alles over jezelf te vertellen, als de echte namen of nummers nog niet zijn doorgegeven. Mischien zeg je wel te veel, en word je heel snel verliefd op die ideale persoon, die mischien wel heel iemand anders is. Ik denk wel in deze tijd, moet je daar gewoon rekening mee houden, dat het allemaal een grote nep is. Dat ze die mooie kaartjes in bulk sturen, en dat ze 10 cm korter zijn, 10 cm meer omvang, en een tand missen kan natuurlijk ook.. Maar dat maakt het niet minder spannend, en als je degene dan ontmoet, lijken ze vaak ergens in de verte wel op hun foto, maar realiteit is 9 van de 10x anders. Nou kan het evengoed nog leuk uitpakken, als het karakter klopt met de mails, en het uiterlijk niet meteen afstotend.. Dan kom je weer op het normale daten, als je een man oppikt die zo lief is in de club, en na een paar keer daten neem je hem mee naar huis, en daar veranderd het in een heel naar persoon. Ik zou zowiezo aanraden om te wachten een paar dates voor je iemand mee naar huis neemt. Een hotel is dan wel veel veiliger.
Het schijnt dat vooral de alleenstaande moeder erg gewillig is. Op de dating sites is zij de easy target. Want staat er vaak alleen voor, en kan gewoon de aandacht even gebruiken. Vaak hebben ook die het te druk voor een relatie en willen gewoon sex. Nou begrijp ik dat ook wel, want sex is lekker, en willen we allemaal wel eens. Maar om een vreemde die je nooit hebt gezien of gesproken meteen voor een bakkie koffie uit te nodigen lijkt me heel heftig.
Toch is het grappige dat toch wel heel veel mensen tegenwoordig hun ware vinden online, blijken dichtbij te wonen, en na weken of maanden te mailen, kennen ze elkaar zo goed, dat het meteen veilig voelt. Het is toch een soort van screening dat je heel uitgebreid kan doen, en dan hopen dat er niet word gelogen. Maar dat hoop je in welke relatie dan ook. Hoe vaak hoor je wel niet, hij/zij was toch niet wie ik dacht dat het was.. Met als extreem voorbeeld, loverboys, die meiden denken ook dat het hun lieve vriendje is, of vrouwen die geslagen worden.. ook die man was zo een schatje toen ze hem leerden kennen.
Dus voor volwassenen onder elkaar, is dat hele online daten mischien niet eens zo een gek idee?
xxx Terri
Aqua Erotica - A different way to enjoy a steamy hot bath
03/04/10 13:19
Aqua Erotica is the perfect combination of reading a good book, taking a hot bath and erotic enjoyment in one. Just recently the second edition of this literary erotica has been releases, letting you discover your foam bath with all new pleasure
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“Intelligent, provocative, and very, very sexy, this collection includes contributions by today’s hottest erotic voices, including Mary Anne Mohanraj, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Michael Hemmingson, Simon Sheppard, Thomas S. Roche, Cecilia Tan, and many more.”
“Aqua Erotica: 12 Stories No Boundaries is the sequel to the bestselling Aqua Erotica: 18 Stories for a Steamy Bath, which is now in its sixth printing with more than 120,000 copies in print. The twelve original stories in this new waterproof volume explore both the possibilities and boundaries of erotic experience. Aqua Erotica: 12 Stories No Boundaries pushes the limits of our own private boundaries and inhibitions”
“Intelligent, provocative, and very, very sexy, this collection includes contributions by today’s hottest erotic voices, including Mary Anne Mohanraj, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Michael Hemmingson, Simon Sheppard, Thomas S. Roche, Cecilia Tan, and many more.”